
Esther Preparation
Esther Prepartion Assessment
"Now when every maid's turn was come to go in to king Ahasuerus, after that she had been twelve months, according to the manner of the women, (for so were the days of their purifications accomplished, to wit, six months with oil of myrrh, and six months with sweet odours, and with other things for the purifying of the women..."
Esther 2:12 KJV

Coach Mel, Relationship Expert
Licensed Chaplain and Certified Success Coach
Ecclesiastical Endorsement + Real-World Experience
If you already know what to do, leave this page.
I can't help you.
But if you’ve tried it all—went to the seminars, listened in church, got the degrees, found the jobs, dated the men, tried to be loving—and it all just hasn’t really added up…
You are in the right place.
Having lived in some of the highest-net-worth cities and counties in the nation, I can tell you a lot of women fall into the exact same trap.
I remember coming from a beautiful dinner with women overlooking Malibu beach in California. Master's degrees, doctorates, Italian food in front of us... yet they were talking about how they weren’t enough to have love.
I was shocked.




I was shocked because I had lived in the same city with them for years and had already been proposed to twice. I didn't say "Yes" to the proposals back then, and I often didn't tell friends because they seemed to have such different experiences.
I’ve always felt it would sound like I was bragging, and I’m a modest person.
I sat there calmly, completely confused why such a beautiful, educated woman could think that she wasn’t enough to be a wife. Who told her that?
The women at the table also believed they should accept a level of treatment that didn't exist anywhere else in their lives (career, home, estate, education).
The host at the table didn’t come out and say these exact words, but it was in her tone, her presence, and how she spoke about her future. Marriage and love were reserved for others she could list—and that list didn’t include her.
Here I am: an educated Black woman with a Master’s from Northwestern, a business that has lasted over 10 years, happy, healthy, and very much imperfect...sitting among my peers. But I always felt I was worthy of love.
…and I’ve been proposed to 2.5 times. (I know 0.5 is wild, but I stopped him before his knee hit the floor—a story for another time!)
Please know, I've been hesitant to tell my story for YEARS!!! But keeping it silent won't help you, so I share it to inspire what's possible.
There are principles I teach my clients to bring them into this lifestyle, because yes, this is a lifestyle. It doesn’t require a mansion, a limousine, or a Master’s degree, but it definitely requires a MINDSET. And in the world of love, mindset has become the most expensive asset you own.
Step One: The Esther Preparation Assessment
If you’re ready to take this journey with me, let me hold your hand and say this: You need an Esther Preparation Assessment.
You need to know for yourself where you land when it comes to being positioned for a king--not a mystical creature, but a real human with imperfections and an ego, yet a heart of gold stored up for you.
To give each client personalized attention, my VIP coaching containers are only offered to women who are serious about their journey in love and have completed the Esther Preparation Assessment.
The Assessment is a 30-minute safe space to talk through your feminine temperament, your readiness, and your capacity to receive. This assessment will help to determine what support you might need and answer questions you currently have.
Investment: $77
Duration: 30 Minutes
If my calendar loads below (scroll down), that means there are spots available this week. If the calendar cannot be seen, it means I’ve met my maximum capacity for this week.
My 60-Day Promise
My coaching containers are backed by a conditional 60-Day Guarantee.
If you follow the action steps in my protocol—including our strategic dating action plans—and you are not sitting across from a date within 60 days, you will receive a full refund in alignment with our agreement. I put my money where my heart is because this process works when you do.

Many women have confused being a Godly or good woman with over-giving, over-functioning, and carrying the emotional weight of men who haven't earned that access. They are left with the emotional weight, the spiritual exhaustion, and sometimes the financial burden.
But the truth is, "You are a temple," and when you stop overfunctioning and overdoing, this protocol will feel so much easier and lighter.

About Coach Mel
RELATIONSHIP EXPERT
Known as a dynamic woman of God who has a radical and faith-filled approach to REST. Her belief that women must return to the inner chambers of the Most High fuels her work daily.
Mel is an award-winning private practice owner for children and family, a Licensed Chaplain with ecclesiastical endorsement, and a board-certified Success Coach. Her clients experience rapid results in 5 weeks or less, and her Esther Preparations have women globally reporting testimonials DAILY.



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